I'm going through a divorce I'm very strong on the fact I want the father to be limited on time with my kids and for it to be on my terms when he does she the children .
By the simple reading of your question, it would appear the wife is the decision maker on time with dad and is the legal custodian. That's based solely on what you have provided. You should have an attorney review the order and provide further clarification.
Not being familiar with IN law nor the guidelines there, it sounds as though you have that control.
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