My husband is enforcing possession and access of his child on his ex. She held him from him for a year and he has 29 violations on her with witnesses. The judge was very angry in court and threatened her with jail time and then her attorney came up with a lie to buy time and judge reset but made clear she saw what was going on here and gave mom a lecture. She then reset the trial and stated all attorney fees are on abate. Well our atorney in the mean time is still sending us bills. We asked her about the abatement and she just said we misunderstood. If this is so, what does it mean?