the father of my child has not been involved in the pregnancy or birth or now that my child is a few months old as well as he does drugs and is verbally abusive. When asked if he wanted to see his child he said no we will just go to court! How likely is it that i will get sole p.r. if i feel its my child's best interest in this situation?!he was also asked to come see his child a few weeks in a row and refused!!!! isn't that considered abandonment????