If you have a court order and your ex-husband fails to follow it, then you can return to the court to seek enforcement or a modification. Please keep in mind that most courts will not consider a one-time, 5 day deviation during a summer vacation to be a major problem, especially because by the time you actually get into court your daughter will be back. Also, just because your ex gives you permission to call the police doesn't mean you should do so--keep the police out of your child's life if you possibly can! That said, you cannot countenance repeated disregard for the Court's order or you be found to have tacitly approved the changes. As such, I recommend you consult with a cool-headed local attorney for specific guidance about how to manage this situation so you neither exacerbate it nor allow it to get out-of-hand. You can find attorneys by searching among the profiles here on Avvo. Good luck!
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