My husband and I were out at a Christmas party and our 3 year old was home with a 16 year old baby sitter. Someone knocked on the door and the sitter tells me she looked through the peep hole but the person covered it with their hand so she walked away. She said the knocking got aggressive and the person was ringing the door bell alot so she went back and could see the person was standing to the side of the door and because she was alone she again didn't answer the door. She said the person then pushed a paper through the door screamed they were an officer of the court, you've been served and he hopes you get the book thrown at you. She called us and didn't touch the paper. We came home and found a photo radar ticket for my husband, which we never recieved in the mail and had no clue even existed before this date, shoved in our door. So through my research this is not being personally served correct? And if not now what? How do I know if the process server filed anything with the court saying otherwise? And how do I prove what happened?