I'm sorry but it sounds like what you really need is a lawyer to advise you. You raised several issues in your post and a lawyer would have to review the facts of your case and its history before giving you advise.
In short, the PE is intended to obtain additional information about your family dinamic than that from your mediation. They will attempt to determine what is in the best interest of your child, with consideration to the bond between your child and the parents, as well as other behavioral issues of the parents which may be harmful to the child. The deadline is pretty typical in Fresno County. Should you wish to further discuss your matter, please feel free to contact us for a free consultation.
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