If you are in the middle of your divorce and you have temporary orders they must be followed, if you do not, then you may go back to court and seek them which will include a parenting plan etc, if he is in violation of a current order, then a contempt type action is appropriate, please work with a local attny, he or she will protect your rights, take care.
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My heart goes out to you. The situation you describe sounds like everyone's worst nightmare of a divorce. I really recommend that you at least have a consultation with a good family law attorney in your area, even if you can't afford to hire them to represent you. I strongly expect that your husbands bad actions are going to come around to bite him, but you must keep being strong in the meantime. Best wishes for dealing with this awful situation.
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