My soon to be ex husband and I went to mediation and agreed upon supervised visits due to the violence in our relationship, he threatening to kill me and our child, mental illness, he had a TPO and breaking it. The agreement was a vague agreement that he will get to see our child two consecutive days a month at the end of January or early February. We been having difficulty with the days and the hours. My ex wants to see our child on his day offs and three hours since he's coming out of state, which conflicts with my school and my internship as well the visitation centers only allow 2 hours. His lawyers are going to bring a motion to the judge even though I already set up the visit with a center. What can I do to make sure I don't get in trouble with the judge or the courts?I have change my schedule with school and my internship, but still my ex insists on his day offs from work to see our child. I have tried compromising and adding more time if he would be able to see our child on the weekend and yet his answer is always no and only wants his day offs. I don't know what to do. I'm worried about going to the court before the judge and the opposing counsel tell the judge that I didn't hold up our agreement from mediation and trying to keep him away from his child. Also, he has never seen our child due to the TPO and him making the decision to want to be involved last month after asking a paternity test in December.
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