My father's new wife so technically my step mother, is a woman I have never met in life. I know her name only because she attempted to contact me on Facebook in 2016. When I ignored the message and blocked her, she started stalking me on the internet. I know internet safety, I have my FB account locked down to only friends/unable to find me by email or numbers so I dont know how she found me. I deleted my twitter, I have an IP tracker on my tumblr blog. She's somehow subverting the IP tracker but that isn't hard to do. I know it's her because she's to the point meddling in my parents divorce that she wrote an affidavit pretending to be my father for a recent court issue that had information in it about me that she wouldn't know unless she was obsessively stalking me online. The information she brought up has no bearing on the divorce case but I'm terrified of this woman and the fact that I don't even KNOW HER and she is cyberstalking me. What can I do about this to make it stop? As I said I deleted many social media accounts, I change the URL of my blog every 8-10 weeks to shake her off but it never works for long. This is stressing me out and again, I'm really actually terrified.
If you still have a relationship with your father, perhaps he can persuede her to let you be.
If that won't work, you may want to consider hiring a lawyer to send a Cease and Desist letter. While a cease and desist letter has little legal impact, it is a relatively inexpensive way to put the step mother on notice and they will be told that you are not going to let this continue and that you are serious about pursuing your legal remedies. It also tells the poster that they could get in legal hot water which will cost them a lot of legal fees if nothing else. This will often convince them to stop their evil ways.
You will want to discuss your situation with a lawyer in more detail. Many lawyers on Avvo offer a free phone consultation.
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