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The mother was married at the time of the child's conception . They divorced 2 months prior to the baby being born . The child is now 27 months old . Shortly after the baby was born she told me it was not mine it was the x - husbands . We broke up and I did not hear from her again till I was served in August 2012 to appear for child support . I filed pro - SE and I requested a DNA test . Results are I am the father . Went back to court last week and I agree with the DNA test and agreed to 20s of net pay . So temp order to pay 80 . a week . My other child 15 receives 85 . a week . My net income is $ 400 per week . The two amounts above I can do . I can't afford daycare costs in addition to these amounts . I am also willing to watch the child days as I work nights . Joint custody possible ?I can't survive on less than the $235 a week I now have left over after both child support orders. She does not comprehend this? Also I feel If she wants daycare instead of me raising the child during the day then that's an unnecessary luxury that she should pay for? I raised my 15 year old for the first five years during the day while mom worked and she is a straight student in accelerated classes, well rounded, and looking forward to Stanford. As opposed to the daycare which mom told me "Every week he comes home with either a scratch, a bruise, a cut, a illness, or this time a bite mark." Wow really? She thinks he needs to be there? I don't get it? Makes me wonder if shes just trying to get a daycare money judgement and then send the child to her moms and pocket the money? Is there any attorney that could work with me on a payment plan or an affordable rate that I could reasonable request help from friends and relatives to pay for?