Mr. Kopelson and Mr. Buzunis have given you good answers.
As for your concern about enticing the defendant into the jurisdiction, I don't think you have to worry too much. if he is in California and is handed the summons and complaint, he is properly served, no matter why he was there. For that matter, if you knew his address in some other state and the process server mailed it to him by certified mail, that would work, too.
Hope this helps.
You cant serve the person if you are a party. Have someone else do it. When you say record, do you mean video? You should not audiotape. Video is ok if its a public place, like a starbucks. I dont know how you would ask for ID w/o arousing suspicion. When the person arrives, just have the server ask "Are you John Smith?" When the guy says who he is, serve him and leave
You as a party can't serve the person, it must be done by a third person, not a party to an action. You can videotape the person in a public place but be careful not to record audio without their express permission. Once they are served, make sure to have the process server fill out and file the proof of service on the summons and complaint. You need to be sure the person the process server is meeting is the right person/defendant. If the server asks for ID that may raise suspision, but if they are willing to show the ID so be it, normally the process server will verbally confirm their identity and then effect the personal service.
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