Talk with an attorney about filing a petition to declare your son undisciplined.
An undisciplined juvenile is a juvenile who is 16 or 17 years of age and who is regularly disobedient to and beyond the disciplinary control of the juvenile's parent, guardian, or custodian; or is regularly found in places where it is unlawful for a juvenile to be; or has run away from home for a period of more than 24 hours.
If successful, this will remove the parental responsibility from you and assign it to the State but you could be responsible for paying some amount of child support. I don't know whether it will affect your residence hence you should talk to an attorney so that all the facts can be obtained to properly evaluate your best options.
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