We were divorced 10/10/2013 and she was told by the courts that she needs to see her children at least 8 hours every two weeks. She has yet to come see them. She has not called since 9/7/2014. She has now moved to another country and has married another person there on 5/15/2015. She has sent on letter in the last 12 months. The children called her on Christmas to wish her a Merry Christmas but she refused to say anything. At that time she was living with her parents and was put on speaker phone so all could hear. But she refused to say anything because she does not believe in Christmas. She refused to call her children. I was not notified of her moving out of the country. I have gathered that from her family since.
Termination of parental rights is big legal step and not lightly granted by a court. I think most states have a specific statute setting out the various grounds under which one can pursue a termination. I would encourage you to speak with a local family law attorney about this matter.
In Washington, the courts will not terminate the rights of one parent unless another adult has stepped up to adopt the children in the terminating parent's place. (The state itself can move to terminate parental rights, but that's only in dependency actions).
The courts will not allow you to terminate her parental rights, because they won't let her off the hook for child support.
So no, you have no grounds to terminate mom's parental rights, UNLESS you can find another adult willing to adopt them and be legally responsible for them in mother's place.
All you can do is ask for a parenting plan (or modify an existing one) limiting/restricting contact between mother and children.
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