Ok my story begins on Saturday night, my boyfriend dumped me in the middle of the mall. I was humiliated and angry. I went over to a friend's place to blow off steam and the next day realise I had left some stuff at his place. I didn't want to call or see him so I had my friend text him from her phone. Apparently she had gone overboard on the texts and I knew little about most of what she said to him or how often she had contacted him. I leave her place to go shopping and go home and she goes to pick up the stuff. I get a call on my phone from her saying that he wasn't there but a cop was making her nervous. It turns out my ex had called the police to get the stuff and they expected me to be there and create a domestic disturbance. She said that when I wasn't they had specifically told me or her to have no contact with him because he could go to the police and get a restraining order. Is there a limitation on how long this will last? Eventually I wanted to contact him in the future and apologize for everything but I obviously don't want to go to court over it.
Until you receive paperwork from the Court outlining the terms of the no contact (assuming he did file a restraining order,) you will not know how long or if there is something that legally prohibits your contact. With that said, I agree with Mr. Wynn that it would be wise to let the dust settle and avoid having contact or communicating with him for the time being. If you do go to retrieve your belongings in the future, it is always smart to bring someone else with you (probably not the friend who sent your ex all those messages), so you have someone who can vouch for you. Best of luck to you.
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