We have been working through the marriage and hanging in there by doing so I am putting myself and my children at risk. I'm caught between staying in a toxic marriage and put my kids at risk in order to complete immigration process or end the marriage and. Risk the process. I don't know what to do and I'm so distraught over this. I don't know what to do. The man I married is not who I thought he was. I do not want my children and i deported. This is the only country they've known for 12yrs. They are born and raised here and do not even speak any foreign languages.