How long have you been living in NY? If it is more than two years, you can file in NY. If it is less than two years, much more information is necessary to answer your question.
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If you meet the NY residency requirements you may file in either NY or NJ. The benefit of filing in NY is that you can avoid court appearances if both you and your spouse can agree to an uncontested divorce. Feel free to contacts our offices for a free consultation. (800) 518-0211. www.uncontesteddivorceny.com.
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If the residency requirements are met by you, you can file in NY or if she meets the residency requirements in NJ she can file there.
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