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We have a final judgement for custody of my son but some holidays were not specified that I wish to be added...What can I do?

Cape Coral, FL |

Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter and Summer were the only holidays specified being split between odd and even years.

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You could theoretically file a Supplemental Motion to modify the original Final Judgment, but that may not be granted unless there has been a significant change in circumstances. A better approach, assuming you and your spouse are able to agree on a more specific holiday time-sharing schedule, would be to prepare a consent modification of the time-sharing schedule to present to the court.



Thank you for the information. However, we do agree that the holidays should all be shared; she does not agree with going through court to have it placed into judgement but I am afraid that if I do not have it added that if she changes her mind to benefit her there will be nothing I can do (such as hold her in contempt) because it is not in judgement. If I do get her to agree and file it through the courts is there a specific form for a consent modification of time sharing?


You would not be able to file for a modification as you are required to have a substantial change in circumstances in order to do so. Not specifying other holidays is not a substantial change.

If you are on good terms with the opposing party you can file an uncontested modification if you can both agree to the terms. I suggest having the agreement drafted by an attorney and having it signed prior to the filing of the case. Otherwise the normal schedule would apply to any holidays that are not specifically mentioned and it will be the luck of the draw as to who gets what holidays unless you both agree.

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In order for you to have these holidays added to your Parenting plan, you will need to have an agreement with your ex to stipulate to a modification of the time sharing aspect of parenting plan.
As this is not a "substantial change" in circumstances since the final judgment you will need a stipulation to do this.


There really is no final judgment when custody and visitation of a minor is involved. But if you can reach an agreement in writing and have the judge approve a stipulation it is cheaper and better for all involved.

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