Your attorney can file a motion to bifurcate your case and then convert your case to Chapter 7 if appropriate. You and your spouse should have separate bankruptcy attorneys once your case is bifurcated. You need to get out of that abusive relationship as soon as possible. Good for you in taking the first step, which is making the decision to leave.
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I agree with the other answer. You should consult with separate experienced bankruptcy counsel relative to your complete financial picture and to make sure a Chapter 7 is the best way to go for you and what you can do relative to your home and car. If 7 is for you, you can bifurcate the cases and move on. Best of luck to you.
First, you should NOT go to the attorney who filed the chapter 13 as they have a built in conflict of interest in trying to represent any couple that jointly filed a ch 13. It is about impossible for the attorney to try and set forth on the possibly conflicts of interest and have both of you sign them. You need to go to a new attorney and see your options which include (1) CONVERTING to ch 7 along with a bifurcation, (2) staying in ch 13 and bifurcating and lowering plan payments, (3) DISMISSAL and later filing a ch 7, or (4) letting your husband make all ch 13 plan payments now while you go through a divorce. Sorry to hear about all of that. No attorney w/o knowing all the types of debts in your ch 13 can know for sure which option you should take. Find a great experienced attorney on Avvo in your state and you can then learn which option they suggest and why. Good luck.
I hope you aren't looking to bankruptcy as the solution to all the problems you described because I can guarantee that filing a Chapter 7 won't resolve anything other than your current debt situation. And frankly it sounds like you may need to add in many more debts. I have written a couple of articles covering the issue of when you may want to file bankruptcy called "Now or later" and the link to the list of my articles is below. Since it was one of the first articles I published, you will have to scroll past a lot of my other articles to find these two. Hope this perspective helps!