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We are trying to settle the Property division, My ex wants his name on the home which i am going to get in propery division.

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My ex says he gets half of the value of the house where i am living based on his oral calculations of the property. Where he is taking another house+loan+liquid cash+ 401. I know that his calculation is wrong. There are very good chances of granting home entirely to me if we go to trial.
Both of us wanted to settle the case out of court. He proposes that, both our names will be there on title and agrees that he will not have the rights to sell without my consent and I will not have the rights to sell the house without his consent. If we settle the PD as above what are the complications i may run into in future. PS: he has his ex-wife and a son of age 20 years.

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"What are the complications?" There are many.

If the house it to be yours, then it should just be yours. How will you be able to refinance it or draw a line of credit if his name is on title.

What if he gets sued and loses. Then YOUR house could be executed against to satisfy HIS debt.

What if he doesn't pay taxes. The IRS will put a lien on your house.

What if he gets busted for dealing drugs. (OK, I know that's farfetched, but it could happen and you'd lose your house.)

What if the house increases in value. Later, he'll want "his share" of the increased value, most likely, although he won't deserve it.

You are MUCH better off clearing title to these properties altogether, NOW, while the issue is before the court.

Frankly, you're in over your head. Hire an attorney to help you navigate these rocky waters. Many attorneys are good at settling out of court.

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You will want to review whatever agreement you have with an experienced family law attorney prior to signing anything. They can discuss the pros and cons of your agreement and warn you of any problems or potential problems.

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The ramifications are based upon how the names are placed on title. But if you place his name on a title, then you are admitting that he has an ownership interest in the house. If you believe that you will be awarded the full value of the house, then why agree to less? Set the matter for trial.


Mr.Yomtov has given you a very clear articulation of reality. Take a look at the movies The War of the Roses and Sleeping with the Enemy. Your listening for advice from the enemy. You are not going to do too well. It sounds as if his thoughts are misplaced and you are going to be entirely taken advantage of. Don’t walk but run to a- competent experienced family law lawyer and let a professional handle this mess.

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I agree with Mr. Yomtov as well and I usually recommend against a property being held jointly by the Parties after divorce. Furthermore there may be tax implications that your Husband has not considered (for example you may not both qualify for the joint capital gains exclusion since he would not be residing in the residence for a requisite number of years after the divorce).

However under limited situations, Parties can agree to continue to maintain joint ownership, but an agreement for doing so has to be drafted very carefully with time limitations and a way out should one of you want to sell the property. I would suggest that before you further consider your Husband's proposal you first consult with a skilled family law specialist and a CPA (or tax attorney) about possible tax ramifications of such a deal.

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