(Iowa) Recently got out of prison. I am getting full custody of my son and I Cant find work in the area im in and there is alot of crime/murders that have been going on. This is not a good place for me or my son to be. My fiance moved to Arkansas where she has family due to physical and sexual abuse from her ex against her and her daughter. I have job opportunities available to me there and I want to better my life for me, my son and my new family. I asked my p.o. about moving and he said no because I didnt have family there. How can I approach him differently so maybe he will change his mind and/or see the seriousness of the situation and show that I can better my life in Arkansas?