In addition to what Mr. Ashman says, if you can show a change in your circumstances, you can file another modification to try and get custody or visitation. This time, however, get a lawyer and give yourself a chance.
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Federal courts don't hear custody cases. If you lost your apparently pro se case in December, your remedy was to file, within 30 days, either a motion for new trial or an appeal. If you sat back and didn't do that, that's your own fault, as those deadlines are absolute.
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No matter what you choose to do, keep in mind that the standard the courts use in determining child custody isn't going to change. If you want to petition to modify custody, you must be realistic about your circumstances and the factors a court uses in determining what's in a child's best interest. Considering the decision the Court made in Dec. 2012, it seems you are fighting an uphill battle. Your best course of action would be to take the time to speak with some experienced family law attorneys to get an accurate picture of what you are dealing with and to determine if moving forward on such an action would be worth your time and expense.