I am over 18 and I met a girl on a social media site who had just moved to my state. I told her we could hang out if she wanted. She told me she was almost 17- to which I still told her that we could hang out if she wanted. I was trying to be nice to someone new to a state because I know the feeling of having no friends in a new state. I told her that if she wanted to make the drive, she could spend the night, but I explicitly said that I would sleep on the floor because I did not want any complications with a minor. She then told me that she did, in fact, want to have sex and sent me racy, but not nude, pictures of herself. I neither reinforced nor revoked my earlier rule of us not sleeping in the same bed. The next day, her father started calling me, claiming that I took advantage of his 14-year-old daughter and is demanding I send him money to keep him from calling the police. I sent him a small amount to buy myself time and he gave me an email and physical address. I researched and found no results on his name and email. The physical address I looked up did not have his name on it- nor any neighboring buildings. I suspect a scam, but I am worried about what might happen to me.
Not a possible scam. It’s the classic scam. Never was a girl. Isn’t the father. Stop communicating with them and stuff going on those kinds of websites. Stupid of you to send money. More stupid still to go online and invite a 16-year-old over to your house to spend the night. Can’t believe you went online and open and public forum and confessed to that.
There is no girl. You were flirting with a dude. This question gets asked about once a week.
In the future, don't invite teenage girls to spend the night with you - no matter what sort of sleeping arrangements you suggest. A real father won't ask for money, but they might come over and kick your tail.
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