I am sorry for your loss. I don't think there is a form you can fill out, but you can tell them that your son passed and they should leave you alone.
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There us no form. Did they file a claim in Surrogate's Court - assuming you probated. Hire a lawyer to write the a letter.
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So very sorry for your loss. These debt collectors are the scum of the earth. This is not your debt..period....advise them to cease and desist from any further communication with you and mark down the date and time you told them. Their continued harrassment over a debt that is not your own may open up a complaint against them in violation of the federal Fair Debt and Collection Practices Act.
That the debt is more than 6 years old means they can hound you, but they can't threaten to sue you or the estate or do so. That would violate the FDCPA. The FTC also has some new rules on this sort f thing, you might want to check with the FTC website.
If they are harassing you ("Busting my chops"), you might be able to sue the agency under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act. Find one of us FDCPA attorneys for assistance. Most of us provide free consultations. Thanks for visiting AVVO.com.
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