You need to tell us more facts. I can't tell whether the agreement was signed before you married (a "prenuptial agreement") or after marriage as part of a separation or divorce proceeding. I will take a swing at it anyway: Generally such an agreement is not enforceable unless
1. It is a prenuptial agreement and you were represented by your own lawyer, who advised you and signed off on the agreement, or
2 It came out of divorce or separation proceedings and was approved by a Judge.
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(Bryant) Keith Martin
It sounds as if you signed a post-nuptual agreement. There are a number of criteria that must be met for an agreement of this type to be enforceable. Your not having an attorney of your own is an important fact that will weigh in your favor. Any disclosures or failure to properly disclose on the part of your husband with regard to his finances would also be an important factor. After considering these factors as well as a number of other factors, a court could determine that the agreement is not enforceable. Even if a court were to determine that the agreement is enforceable, the custody provision is not binding. The court will consider the custody provision as being the your and your husband's belief, at the time you signed the agreement, of the best interests of your children. However, the court will need to determine the custodial arrangement that is in the best interests of your children at present. You would be entitled to argue that, notwithstanding the provisions of the agreement, it is in the children's best interest for you to have sole legal custody. You would be well advised to consult with an attorney to review in greater detail the facts of your situtation and the terms of the agreement.
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