The answers to that multitude of questions are mostly on-line in the civil rules, the local rules, the Washington Law Help website, chapter 26 of the RCW on the Washington Legislature website, and the cases on the MRSC website.
In general, courts rule to provide for what is in the best interests of the children. Temporary parenting plans are usually ordered during the time between the initial filing of a divorce and the ordering of a permanent parenting plan.
Your chances of getting what you want improve if you get out your checkbook and pay an attorney to devote some of his or her valuable time and attention to your situation.
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