I don't know if a guardianship is easier to obtain that a step parent adoption. On the adoption side, If your child's step father wants to adopt him, you will have to get the father's permission or file and have a judge grant a petition to terminate the father's parental rights.
Feel free to ask me any questions. Good luck!
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A guardianship can only be granted if it is "necessary." With you alive, and the child with you in your home, there is no way to get the court to find that appointing your spouse as guardian is necessary. If you passed away, at that time your spouse could apply to be the child's guardian, but he would have to notify the child's father and it could be contested.
A step-parent adoption can be done, but to do that the rights of the child's biological father must be terminated. If he consents, great - you can do it. If you are not certain of his consent, under the facts you have provided above, it is unlikely that you could prevail on an action to terminate his rights, because he has not technically abandoned the child. "Abandonment" per statute is failure to visit or support the child, left with the other parent, for over a year. If he has stopped paying support recently, I would suggest marking that on your calendar and waiting out the year.
Since I don't have ALL the facts and an extended question-and-answer session is not best handled in an on-line forum, I strongly suggest that you and your husband go see a local, experienced family law attorney who also practices adoption. Though adoption is under the family code, many family law attorneys don't practice adoption - so, ask that question before going for your consultation. That attorney will be able to ask you a variety of questions and, based on your full and complete answers, should be able to give you more definitive legal advice.
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A guardianship would not help you so long as you are alive. A guardianship is granted where neither parent is able to care for the child and the guardianship is in the best interests of the child. If you pass away your current husband could seek guardianship over your son, however the biological father would be notified and could seek to establish his rights. The more appropriate course of action would be to take steps to terminate the parental rights of the biological father and move towards a step-parent adoption.
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Your son's stepfather can apply for adoption. Since you are the custodial parent, you must consent to the adoption. Your ex must also sign a consent form declaring he is terminating his parental rights over the child. If your ex does not want to sign the declaration, the stepfather can file a petition to terminate the parental rights.
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