It will probably be best to bring everything current. Get to an attorney who handles adoptions in your area.
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I agree that it would probably be best to have an updated consent signed by your ex-husband. If your ex-husband truly has no interest in his child then perhaps he will sign the document with little trouble. If he does give you trouble then you could always go forward with the old consent and see if the judge accepts it in a small informal hearing prior to your final hearing.
In Duval County (Jacksonville) I would not try to finalize an adoption with a Consent that was five years old (too old); he needs to execute a more current Consent. The Legislature has dictated the form and the language that must be in the Consent and that was done about four-five years ago so the Consent that he signed may not be the correct one. The family law Judges all want to see the right form. I am sorry to hear about your financial situation but there are attorneys who take payment plans and credit cards, if that make it easier for you. Best of luck to you.
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