A few years ago I was served a hering for a restraning order for an exs gf an other state. I was unable to travel to that state but sent a letter to the court house. My ex called me a few months ago and told me she still loved me and wanted to get back with me. She has stoped calling though and im worried for her that somethign happend, but i havnt tried calling cause im scared ill get in trouble with that restraining order. How ever i was never contacted by the court or by any police saying that she got it or not. One of the tiems she called me she said it was for 5 years, 3 years have passed. Am I able to contact her?