Shusband bought home before we were married, 2006. We marred in 2015. He now is harassing me to sign on refi loan to lower month
2 attorney answers
If he files for legal separation, he will have to buy out your interest in the house but he get it from the refi - so it would probably be to your advantage since you have been living separately anyway for 2 years.
I feel you will benefit from visiting a lawyer in his or her office and an in person consultation. Your question is unclear. If you feel you are being abused, you can request a domestic violence restraining order. Property acquired before marriage is his separate property anyways. And there are complicated rules about your (and community) rights for reimbursement which are difficult to explain in such forum.
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