Child support is not taxable income to the recipient and is not a deduction of taxable income for the person paying.
Spousal maintenance that is paid because of a court order is taxable income to the recipient and a deduction for the paying person. However, if this is a "non-legal separation", there likely is no court order.
The IRS has specific ways to determine the incomes of persons who are still spouses.
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