Yes you should,
Stop publicly making statements about what happened and contact a lawyer immediately.
The answers to many of your questions are, it depends. It depends on where you got charged, who the prosecutor is, who the judge is. All these things matter.
many times it does not matter what the victim wants to do, especially if the police have enough evidence to go without the victims testimony.
Ammar Alo, Esq.
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You should contact a criminal defense lawyer; most offer free consultations.
Good for you for paying his deductable, for paying the insurance company, and for going to AA. Definitely document everything--get receipts for your payments and get a piece of paper stamped at AA meetings.
If criminal charges are filed, immediately contact a criminal defense lawyer. You should also refrain from posting anything online or talking about it; what you say can and will be used against you in court.
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Please, for your own sake, think about what your sending out over the internet. NOTHING you say here is confidential. None of us are your lawyer.
Use the internet to get info on lawyers you wish to consider to help you. Your time will be better spent. You need a good lawyer. That is the best advice you're going to get for free online.
I agree with Attorney Alo. Retain counsel if you haven't done so already.
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I agree with the responding attorneys. I would recommend that you hire an attorney as soon as possible. On a separate note, Avvo is not a confidential forum, so I would advise you to keep this information between you and your attorney.