I am 16 and I got romantically involved with a 13 year old. If it helps you relate with me, know she's exactly like someone my age in every way possible except, well, her actual age. Looks, maturity, everything. Anyways, she gave me oral sex before and her mom found her phone and talked to a detective through the police about it. they talked to her about it and she told me they're going to talk to me too, I'm not sure when they are going to do so. Anyways, when they talk to me should I refuse to talk with them until i get an attorney and escalate things further by doing so or just come clean with everything? She also told them that I was 15 (a couple months ago) when she was questioned and we haven't done anything sexual since. I'm very nervous and scared, please help!