It depends on what the court thinks is in the best interest of the children. We have a standard possession order in Texas and it is presumed to be in the best interest of the children. However, that presumption does not apply to children under the age of 3, which your kids appear to be.
But you need to sue him for child support and get a possession order in place. These informal deals never work out. Ever.
Hire a local family law attorney because these are complicated issues.
You really need to get possession, visitation and child support formalized through a court. As far as custody, most courts will not split custody 50/50. They will most likely grant joint custody with one of you being named the primary conservator. The court will likely order a standard possession order, which means that the non-primary parent would get the 1st, 3rd and 5th weekends of the month plus one evening a week and split holidays, although they do not have to use all o0f their allotted time. Who will be named primary is based on what is in the kids' best interests.
You really need to talk to an experienced family law attorney. All of the options in Harris County Texas are just too complex to try to cover in an email.
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In Harris County, most cases settle without a trial. In Harris County, the courts ORDER you to go to mediation BEFORE trial.
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