If you were married for more than 20 years, your attorney is probably correct with regard to the ongoing alimony..... Certainly you can obtain a "consultation" with another attorney if you are have second thoughts about your current attorney..... but your current attorney knows the case better than you think.....
Best wishes to you.
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The threshold question for determining Alimony is whether there is a need and an ability to pay. Based on your facts, it seems that your wife has a need for alimony. The question of whether you have an ability to pay is a bit more complex. Not only is your actual income considered in this analysis, your earning capacity is also considered; especially if you were the historical breadwinner in the family. I agree with Attorney Molloy that you may wish to seek a second opinion to give a fresh look at your situation. However, a 20 year marriage is considered long term and under the new Alimony Statute, you may be obligated to pay spousal support until you reach your full social security retirement age or until one of the statutory events is triggered, such as your wife remarrying. In the meantime, a court may consider a temporary reduction or elimination of temporary alimony if the facts of your case are compelling. Your attorney may have good reason not to seek a reduction or elimination of alimony, but you should engage in a dialogue to understand why. Best wishes.
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You are supposed to continue to pay alimony until the court changes the order, but you can't be found in contempt unless you have the proven ability to comply. You can seek a modification, but it is impossible to tell from the limited facts here whether that would be successful of not.
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