I agree with my colleague. Unless the father files a petition to establish paternity and a motion for custody/visitation, he has no legal rights of any kind. For practical purposes, he has no say about anything regarding the minor child. So, in answer to your questoin, father has no custody rights of any kind if paternity is not esablished.
The only circumstance that father could ATTEMPT to take your son from you is he not only filed a petition to establish paternity and a motion for custody and visitation but also convinced a judge that it was in your son's best interests to say with him. Just because he's not working and wishes to stay at home is not a sufficient basis for a court to grant him sole legal or sole physical custody. In fact, the court would require that BOTH parents work--as both parents have a legal duty to support a minor child. While you may have agreed to have Father stay home when you lived together, all bets are now off because you are now separating.
Unless he files a motion, there is no "need" for you to hire an attorney. Technically speaking, you are allowed to leave with your son TODAY and Father has no say--as he has no legal rights as of today! Ponder that thought.
Should Father hire an attorney and therafter file a paternity action, then it is strongly recommended that you hire an attorney. If finances are an issue, there are many California attorneys willing to offer coaching services. In a coaching session, you do all the work, but the attorney provides you assistance through every part of the process, e.g. your coach. Such legal services are much less as compared to full legal representation.
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File a paternity action and have paternity established. Get orders regarding custody, visitation and support. In the absence of any orders, he does not have legal rights. If you want to get control over the situation, hire an attorney and file a paternity action.
I agree with the previous statements regarding the need for a paternity action. These types of proceedings can be emotionally overwhelming. It would be smart to talk to an attorney in helping you proceed and figure out the strategic means of helping you with your circumstances.
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