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Seeking a divorce. what is the first step?

Bethlehem, NH |

own a house with a mortgage, one minor child age 13. other real estate as well. wife hasen't worked for several years. says she won't seek professional help for mental or physical disabilities.

married for 24 years. can't afford a lawyer. we can't agree on anything.

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Your first step is to file a petition for divorce, however I must advise that with a long marriage, marital property and minor children, you really should seek a divorce attorney. I know that finances are tough for you, but there are many attorneys who will work out a payment plan. The process can get complicated, especially if you and your wife don't agree. You both must take a mandatory parenting class. The forms required can be found here ( Again, I strongly suggest that you obtain an attorney. Good Luck to you.

Kati M. Amarantes


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