Normally, the attorney for "the estate" is the same attorney as the attorney for the executor. In any event, the executor cannot simply keep the estate open indefinitely. If there is no reasonable reason to keep things going, your recourse would be to petition the court to compel distribution.
You would want an attorney to look this over, (and to assist you), if you decide you wish to take action.
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The normal timeline in Florida for a non-taxable estate is one year.
The PR can not take advantage of assets in the estate for personal benefit.
The PR can ask the court for an extension if necessary for a valid reason.
If you as a beneficiary feel "cheated"-you should be represented by an attorney.
The answer given does not imply that an attorney-client relationship has been established and your best course of action is to have legal representation in this matter.
You should hire your own attorney to work towards getting you your share of the house. The Personal Representative should not be living there rent free indefinitely.
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