My brother who I have a restraining order against lives next door to our mother. When I went to see our mom, he was over there when the order prohibits this. He was supposedly invited by our mom. The local police said there was nothing in the order stopping him since it also stated that he could have contact with our mother. My question is this: Is he or is he not in violation of the restraining order? The police officer also said that since he was there, I couldn't even talk to our mother at the time.