You will need to file a Petition to Relocate if you are planning to move more than 50 miles away. If you move without your ex's permission or the court's permission you will be in violation of Florida Statutes. This sounds like a valid reason that a Judge will likely grant, but you will still have to follow the proper procedures.
F.S. 61.13001 provides for a situation like this. This statute is for a parent wishing to relocate more that 50 miles from the current residence.
Since your ex will not agree to split the cost of the school, you should file a Petition to Relocate.
Considering the reason for the relocation, a better school for your disabled child, I don't see why the Judge would deny your petition. You may have to split the driving to provide your ex with the current time schedule in existence.
I agree with the above attorneys' advice
the information provided above is for information purposes only and you should consult an attorney for specific answers to your case
You should ask your attorney to file a motion for the school tuition costs, since the court can authorize that.
If you move to Tampa, you may be requested to drive your children down to Naples every other weekend and whatever other time-sharing is arranged. That can end up very time-consuming and expensive.
If your Ex can afford the school, and it is to the benefit of the child, the court would probably rule in your favor, based on the "Best Interests of the Child" doctrine.
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