I'm not sure what you think the judge would do: Make the other side offer you more?
As a general principle of law, no one can make a party to a legal dispute accept a settlement offer that s/he finds unacceptable, and no one can make a party to a lawsuit make an offer by way of settlement that exceeds what the party is willing to pay. Moreover, settlement communications are generally not admissible in evidence before a finder of fact, i.e., a judge in a case where there's no jury.
Not legal advice, just general principles. Consult local counsel to obtain legal advice tailored to your specific circumstance. I practice in Vermont ONLY.
A judge is not going to substitute for a lawyer in this for you. See if you can retain counsel on a contingency fee basis.
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The trustee is the person who has to appear in court. Is he/she represented by an attorney? If so that is the person you should be talking to. The judge in probate "oversees" the work of the trustee - the Judge will not compel a party to approve or not approve an settlement. If the trustee wishes to accept the settlement offer the judge has a duty to make sure that it is fair and equitable for the trust beneficiaries. I the trustee intends to accept the offer, you can appear in court and tell the judge that your object to the trustees action.
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