I am sorry to hear about your difficult situation. You can still seek to file guardianship petitions for your grandchildren. You should seek advice from a qualified family law attorney who gave you a solid game plan.
Advice provided is of a general nature to provide guidance. Divorce law is state specific. One should always check the laws in their home jurisdiction. An attorney-client relationship is not intended or established through provided responses.
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