Our divorce has been over for since October 2009. We had to fill out QDRO documents for her 401k and Pension plans. For the funds to be transferred into my account. I have sent her several requests for her to sign the QDRO documents. How long do I have to get this done? Things are going well with us. Can I waiting 5 or 10 years to get the funds transferred, or is an expiration date.