You need to terminate the agreement by an subsequent writing. So, if you have a prenup, you can execute an new agreement to settle the divorce. This is called a "stipulation of settlement." It in you recite that the prior agreement is specifically superseded. It is best to get a lawyer to draft this to make sure it is in the right form. The court clerks in Manhattan are very strict, and if the paperwork is not perfect, they will reject it.
The short answer is yes, so long as you reference the pre-nuptial in the divorce settlement so you capture the knowing waiver. For a full assessment, schedule a consultation with a NYC Family Law attorney.
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Yes, you certainly can. Changes can easily be accommodated by a subsequent written agreement, which will be incorporated into your judgement of divorce. Attention to the details of drafting and executing this agreement will be important, but it does not need to be terribly complicated. Consult with a local attorney to discuss the details in a confidential setting--be sure both parties have separate attorneys so there's no question later that someone "didn't know what they were signing" or anything like that. Good luck!
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