I was recently advised by my roommate that a process server was at my house looking to serve me(she had stated that she was only in town visiting and would not be held responsible for any paperwork addressed to me). He then proceeded to sit outside my house for 3 hours waiting for me .. On a different day he knocked on my door, then stood by my car awhile before going out of view. I"m unsure how he knew what vehicle was mine as you can't determine from the parking spot numbers to the flat they coincide to.. Ive read that they have 120days to serve..but is this everyday I have to worry about this guy showing up? be outside in wee hours of a.m when I leave for work? does he have a picture of me? can I just say I'm not who he asks and walk away, pretending to be a friend borrowing the car?What if I change my address? would that be able to put a reasonable doubt into the verification process?