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August 2008- my 14 year old son and his 13 year old step sister were sleeping in the same area and my stepdaughter woke up to my son fondling her breast (he also had an erection)- he says that he woke up like that, her story corroborates that and we discussed it and have been dealing with it as just the embarassing situation in an enviorment that I didn't control as a parent- since then, my step daughter has vocalized to her mother that she is 'uncomforable', - understandable- she agreed that maybe she could speak to a counselor, so her mother called to set it up- this was last week- it was reported to the police and she had to go and give a statement...the policeman who took the statement said that he 'really didn't see it going anywhere', but if it did, I would get a call from a detective- the next day, CPS went to all 5 of our children at school to interview them and called me afterward to let me know I wouldn't hear from them unless criminal charges were pressed...the thing that is so unfortunate to me is that we are her primary care givers- she is with mom 3 days a week- and there are a lot of issues at mom's that have been unresolved for a long time- she (stepdaughter) is horrified that things have escalated to this level and my son is terrified that he will go to prison. Today we heard that stepdaughter has to go back and give another statement with a prosecuter and detective present and my son will as well. I just don't know what it all means- does this mean that there will be charges now? Do we need to have a lawyer present? One of the detectives commented that she 'didn't see this going anywhere' and 'couldn't see them going after a 14 year old boy for being a 14 year old boy' - I did call the police and they were very vague about the process, so I just don't know what to expect-