You need to contact a family attorney asap. Certainly before you go to court on Monday. Look under the "find a lawyer" tab.
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There is no getting out of it. You do however have rights that need to be protected. You should ask for a fair amount of support and fair visitation. The tax deduction issue is sometimes more complicated than it may seem. Taking the deduction can free up income that can actually be factored to raise your support payments. You need to speak with someone to help you figure out the best way to proceed. Good luck.
You were there at the time of his inception if the DNA test results name you as the father. Seek visitation and the tax deduction, the court will make the judgment.
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