It's difficult to understand clearly what is the question, but it sounds like you have an abusive spouse who is living with you in a home you own. I would suggest you talk to a family law attorney and proceed with dissolution or separation proceedings, and obtain an order removing him from the premises.
This comment is general in nature and is not intended as legal advice. It does not create an attorney client relationship and obviously is not confidential. You should contact an attorney in your area who can review with you all of the relevant facts and give you specific legal advice.