First, yes they can order you to take a paternity test. Unlike other types of cases, Jurisdiction is over the child and where the child is, not you. Second, her husband is presumed to be the father if they were married when the child is born. He should be taking/have taken a paternity test first and only if he is found not to be the father do they normally move forward to the next step - a paternity action with a third party.
So, it sounds as if it may be likely that you are the father. If you are the father, you cannot be ordered to pay back support in this situation. You can only be ordered to pay support from the date you were served. And, of course, you will now have the right to get to know and have a relationship with your child.
To protect you in this situation and obtain the best results if you are the father, I strongly suggest you obtain local counsel who is an experienced family law attorney. Good luck to you.
I agree in principle with previous counsel, but...
I have seen these fact patterns before and with out of state fathers. I that other fact pattern he had never lived in WISC, and just like you the husband had taken responsibility previously. In his circumstance he refused the orders of the Wisconsin court by not responding. Then they when through his local state which had real problems with the fact pattern and eventually refused to order him the father, even though he had taken a DNA test on his own many years before and was actually the father.
So, I would suggest that you contact a lawyer in your own state. It may not go as well given you being so close to Wisconsin (the next state over), but if you want to fight it, that would be how to state.
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