My ex filed for support after an argument 2 years ago. She put a wrong address for me and I was just served. I've had equal timesharing with our son since we broke up and I also carry his health insurance and give her money every month for any expenses. Our relationship has been amicable for the past 2 years and she told me to ignore the papers, that she doesn't want to go to court. I don't want to ignore the papers but don't know what to answer. She gets paid under the table and put that she makes $0 in her affidavit so she can continue to receive medicaid and food stamps; she also put that she has him all of the time. Do I admit that she I carry insurance and pay her, as well as file a parenting plan with my response? I don't want to get screwed in support and my time sharing.