I added a family law tag so that you can get the benefit of specialty advice. I do not believe that this attorney has met their ethical obligation to you, but do not practice in this area or state.
Many states have a fee arbitration system which can be determined through your states bar association website or by calling and asking for direction. You may be able to get some of your fee back if the hours provided were clearly excessive given the amounts received and billed.
LEGAL ADVICE: Unless you have retained me as your attorney, and I am currently engaged by you and providing you with legal advice and services, nothing in this post is intended to be, nor may it be construed as, legal advice.